Where the guides come from
I've sat beside enough patients to know what the process is actually like. You walk into a consultation with a list of questions and forget half of them. You get quotes that don't line up. You lie awake wondering whether a recovery is going "normally".
The guides draw on that experience with hundreds of patients, and on published research and professional guidelines, including:
- WPATH Standards of Care
- American Society of Plastic Surgeons
- Journal of Sexual Medicine
- Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery
- Transgender Health
Clear answers, no agenda
This is an independent website that I own, pay for and run myself. It is not affiliated with any surgeon, clinic or medical device company.
- I review every procedure guide against current clinical guidelines
- I update costs and recovery timelines as new data is published
- Surgeon listings are free and cannot be bought
- Your questions shape what I write next
My goal is to make FTM surgery understandable, whether you're years away from a decision or booking a consultation next week. How I research and check each guide is set out in the editorial policy.
The bit I do for a living. I also run Thailand Care, which arranges treatment for international patients at Bangkok hospitals. It's where the experience behind these guides comes from, and it's a commercial interest in Thai surgery, so I'll be plain about how I handle it. Thai surgeons meet the same listing criteria as everyone else, cost tables show Thailand alongside the US, UK and other countries, and nothing here steers you to book through me. If you do want help planning surgery, wherever you have it, you pay the hospital's own price with nothing added for my involvement. If a page ever reads like a pitch, tell me.
Are you new here?
I’d start with the Start Here guide, which walks through every procedure and the order most people take them in. You can also follow along on Instagram and Facebook for new guides and updates.
Two good places to start
Frequently asked questions
Are you trans? Are you gay?
No. I'm a straight, married man, and I say that up front because people reasonably want to know where a site like this is coming from. I'm not writing from lived experience of transition. I'm writing from years of sitting beside trans men through consultations, quotes, surgeries and recoveries as the person coordinating their care, and from the clinical literature. Where lived experience matters more than that, I say so rather than pretend.
Are you a doctor?
No. I'm not a surgeon, a doctor or a nurse, and nothing on this site is medical advice. My job is coordinating care, which means I've spent years translating between surgeons and patients, but decisions about your own surgery belong with you and your surgical team.
Who pays for this site?
I do. There are no sponsors, no paid listings and no ad networks. If that ever changes, the editorial policy and privacy policy will say so before anything goes live.
Can I get my surgeon or clinic listed?
Yes, if they meet the criteria on the surgeon directory page. Listings are free and cannot be bought, and I remove them if a surgeon stops practising or the information turns out to be wrong.
I found a mistake. What do I do?
Tell me. I check every correction, fix the page if you're right, and note the change at the bottom with the date.
Contact
Got a question, a correction or a surgeon to suggest? Get in touch, I read everything. The same goes for surgeons and clinics who want a free listing, and for journalists who need a source on FTM surgery.