Planning Your Surgery
Between deciding on surgery and being on the table there are usually several months of practical work. You pick a surgeon, sit through a consultation, sort out hormones and fertility, book time off, pack, and line up someone to look after you. This section takes those in roughly the order they come up. Most of the avoidable problems I have seen came from one of these steps being left to the last fortnight.
Before you book
The biggest decision is choosing a surgeon. That page is about how to judge one: how often they do your exact operation, how they show results, whether they will define their revision rate, and who answers the phone at week three. It is not a shortlist, and I do not rank surgeons. The consultation page covers the appointment itself: what the surgeon examines, what to bring, the questions to ask in the room, and what a straight answer sounds like next to an evasive one.
If you want more than one procedure, read combined procedures before the consultation. Top surgery with a hysterectomy under one anaesthetic is the pairing I see booked most, and it can save a block of time off and a facility fee. Some pairings are routine and some are not, and the page says which. Sequencing across several years is on which surgery first.
Hormones and fertility
Two things need sorting months ahead, not weeks. Fertility preservation has to happen before a hysterectomy with oophorectomy, and egg or embryo freezing has often meant pausing testosterone for a month or more first, so it needs planning around your surgery date. Surgeons should raise it before any operation that removes the ovaries; in the consultations I have sat in on, not all of them do.
Testosterone and surgery covers whether you will be asked to pause T. Surgeons disagree about this more than about almost anything else, and the page explains what the disagreement is about. It also covers the pre-op blood test that matters most if you are on T, so you can raise it early.
Getting ready
The pre-op checklist runs week by week through the run-up: tests, medications to stop, paperwork, time off and getting the house ready. The packing list is what to take to hospital and what to have waiting at home.
If you are travelling for surgery, whether to another city or another country, that page covers how long to stay before flying, where to recover, and how follow-up works once you have gone home. That last part is the one to settle before you book the flight.
The caregiver guide is written for whoever is looking after you. Send it to them before surgery. It covers what they will actually be doing, from emptying drains and tracking medication to spotting the signs that mean calling the clinic, so you are not explaining it all on painkillers.
What this section is not
This is information, not medical advice, and it does not override your surgeon's instructions. The ranges on these pages are for planning; the figure your surgeon gives you overrides them. Costs have their own section under costs, and what happens after the operation is under recovery.
Guides
Before you book
Combined Procedures
Which FTM surgeries are routinely done in one operation, what combining saves, and why a surgeon might say no.
Your Consultation: What to Ask and Bring
What happens at a surgical consultation, what to bring, and the questions worth asking your surgeon.
Choosing a Surgeon
How to find names, check credentials, read results photos and spot red flags before you commit to a surgeon.
Getting ready
Pre-Op Checklist
A week-by-week checklist for the run-up to surgery: long lead items, tests, medications, paperwork and setting up home.
Surgery Packing List
What to bring to hospital and what to have ready at home, from button-up shirts to catheter kit and stool softeners.
Travelling for Surgery
Planning surgery away from home: how long to stay, the flight back, where to stay and arranging follow-up once you leave.
Caregiver Guide
For partners, friends and family: what looking after someone after surgery involves, what to ask at discharge and when to call the clinic.
Hair Removal
Clearing donor-site hair before phalloplasty with urethral lengthening: who needs it, electrolysis or laser, the template, timing and cost.
Hormones and fertility
Fertility Preservation
Egg, embryo and ovarian tissue freezing before hysterectomy or oophorectomy: options, the T pause, timing and cost.
Testosterone and Surgery
Why surgeons disagree about pausing testosterone before surgery, what a pause does, and what to ask.
New to FTM surgery?
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